Tuesday, June 30, 2015

"Best Friends"




            You cannot call your child “best friend,”
words that only honored others bear.
It’s not against the law exactly,
but it’s sheer impropriety.
Whether son as such or daughters as much,
children are disallowed, cannot share
so matter-of-factly in that surpassing praise,
reserved for strangers to one’s blood,
privileged people, most loved, but removed.

           The phrase is maudlin fault, smuggled emotion
so far around the language bend
it is barred from polite or any society.
Even if true,
it will not do.

            Still though all three of mine are grown,
have their own connections farther down
the chain of being, they remain
abiding closest confidents to me.
Therefore, thereupon, I offer no apology,
no social correction in this unretracted overdue
revelation (which will do, because it is true):
these fond friends are best
not in over-reaching, far-fetched but honest
publication, which can and must be said
before too late, without subtracting from unrelated
comrades or unrivalled mate
with their own deserved affirmation.

            Hence, whereupon and forthwith,
for these special three,
lifelong bonded company:
may their own progeny—
good, better, or best—
be equally, familiarly, similarly

blest.

Friday, September 5, 2014